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#Firstdayofschoolproblems—It's Not That Bad

A look at how we can be thankful for school, rather than be under the impression that "school" and "thankful" don't go into the same sentence unless referring to Thanksgiving Break.

All the way up until this year, my junior year at , the only thing that could possibly get me excited for school was back-to-school shopping. Otherwise, nothing really appealed to me; the constant sleep deprivation, the stressful late-night studying for tests that could seriously affect my grade, the homework, the never-ending lack of time to do anything fun—Those are negative aspects of school that I most dread.

Or, at least, I used to dread them. They’re still not great factors of high school life, but I look at them differently now.

The phrase “#firstworldproblems” is one I’ve been hearing more often lately, and it has started to actually affect the way I view—and complain about—my problems in life (most of which come from school). Some people know about this hash-tag trend, but most commonly, they’ll see things like #tallpeopleproblems, #longhairproblems, #paleproblems, etc. Usually, hash tags like these are funny, but #firstworldproblems just makes me cringe.

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I’m not sure if it has the same meaning for everyone, but for me, tacking #firstworldproblems onto the end of my complaints reminds me that I’m actually really blessed by this life, if I compare it to the lives of people my age in third-world countries.

While a girl in Iran might “complain” about fearing for her life every time she walks to school, I complain about how bad the school-bus smells... #firstworldproblems. While a boy in India might “complain” about missing out on an education entirely because he has to work to support his family, I complain about how much I hate doing math homework. Seriously, #firstworldproblems.

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This new perspective didn’t come to me overnight. It took a few years, and especially this summer, when I attended a Christian leadership camp at Duke Divinity, for me to learn to be extremely grateful for the amazing opportunities presented to me through school. School is where I learned how to write, so that I can participate in the Wheaton Patch blog. In school, I discovered and fell in love with photography (see the results of randomly deciding to take Photo 1 as a freshman at Hannah Howell Photography on Facebook!). In school, I learned leadership, problem-solving, and public speaking skills. You can actually learn a lot of great stuff at school (who would have thought?).

So thank you, hash-tag-first-world-problems, for reminding me, and hopefully others, that the first-world life is a pretty great one that we should be very grateful to live. Going to school isn’t a party 100 percent of the time, but it is a place where you meet new friends, have new experiences, and get the chance to do something with your life. All of this is something that a huge portion of the world’s kids won’t get. And that’s something we should really be complaining about.

(But, if I had a choice between an extra week of school and an extra week of summer, I’d go with summer.)

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